San Diego Couple's Final Wish Fulfilled After 75 Years of Marriage (ABC News) Jeannette and Alexander Toczko spent their lives in love. So it was only fitting that after nearly 75 years of marriage, they died within a day of each other, their final wish fulfilled. They were both born in Stamford, Connecticut, in 1919, the children of Polish immigrants, both coming from large families. The couple began dating when they were 8 years old, according to their children Richard and Aimee. "My dad carried around a picture of my mother in her Holy Communion outfit in his wallet," Aimee Toczko-Cushman told ABC affiliate KGTV in San Diego. Jeannette, 96, and Alexander, 95, married in 1940. Alexander joined the U.S. Navy. He returned safely. The family grew. According to U-T San Diego , Alexander pursued a career in advertising in New York City during the 1950s and 1960s. The husband and wife traveled together. They visited Bermuda . Courtesy Toczko ...